Everyone says good relationships take work. But what if a great relationship could be effortless?
We’ve all heard the advice: if you want to have a good relationship, you have to work at it. Well, you know what? That’s terrible advice.
Bad relationships are a lot of work, I’ll give you that. They’re a constant struggle. What nobody tells you is that great relationships take a lot less effort than bad ones. The key is doing the right things to make the relationship easier and more enjoyable, rather than the “work” that doesn’t work.
Picture this: You’ve had a horrible day. Everything went wrong and then some. You feel like crap. When you talk to your partner about it, which response will you likely get?
- A grunt while not looking up from the TV.
- Oblivious blithering about his or her day.
- Advice for how you should do everything better next time with incredulous interjections of “You should have done this!” and “Why didn’t you do that?”
- A sympathetic ear, an offer to take over dinner and the evening responsibilities, and maybe even a back rub.
Wouldn’t it feel great to have someone you could count on to really care about you and help you when you need it? Someone who understands you? Someone you feel totally comfortable with, you laugh at each other’s inside jokes, and you communicate easily with?
When is somebody going to really understand you—know you inside and out, warts and all, and truly love all of you?
That’s what it comes down to, isn’t it?
Imagine how much more you could get done working as a team, and how peaceful and joyful your life would feel if your relationship was an easy flow instead of a constant struggle.
You can make it happen with my guidance.
Here’s what you’ll get:
- 1 month of coaching (four 1-hour sessions by phone or Skype)
- Email check-in between sessions if you need help
- A questionnaire to assess the relationship and find out where it’s going wrong
- Simple, proven steps to improve all of your relationships
- The key to the #1 problem that holds relationships back and how you can overcome it
Plus, these awesome bonus materials:
- Worksheets to help find patterns in your relationships that you don’t like
- An inspirational list of guidelines for good communication
- An exercise to help defuse hurt and anger
Together, we’ll transform your relationship from something you work at to something you want to spend time and energy on because you enjoy it so much.
Obviously, major relationship changes don’t happen overnight. It takes time to learn and practice new ways of relating with the people in your life. I can’t wave a magic wand and make your significant other immediately jump to cook dinner, give you foot massages, and hang on your every word. But over the course of this program, I will guide you in making the changes that will have the most impact first. Even if you’ve been struggling with the same problems for years, I will give you the tools you need to see significant improvement by the end of the program, and keep getting better beyond it.
This program is for you if:
- You want better relationships and are ready to grow and change
- You’re willing to look at the causes of your problems, even if they might be personal or painful
- You realize that change can be scary and need guidance and support in making the changes you want
- You want more harmony and closeness with those you love
This program is not for you if:
- What you really want is reassurance that other people have it much worse and you should settle for what you have
- You’re highly invested in blaming the other person and trying to change him or her
- You don’t really want anything to change
- You just want to complain
- You have an abusive relationship or either party has major psychological problems (I’m not a psychiatrist—that stuff is out of my league)
- You’re not 100% committed to seeking truth, discovering reality, and acting
I’ve been helping people with these problems for years, but this is the first time I’m offering it in a coaching package like this. I want to make sure everything goes smoothly for the official launch, so I’m accepting a very small pre-launch group to work out any kinks.
Pricing
When this program officially launches, the cost of the package will be $600. However, for the pre-launch trial, I’m offering a 50% discount. You get all of the worksheets, assessment tools, educational materials, and four sessions of coaching, for only $300. In exchange, I’ll ask for your feedback about any glitches and what works best for you, so I can make sure everything is optimized for the official launch.
Obviously, a program like this requires a lot of energy from me, so availability is (very!) limited. For the pre-launch, I’m only taking 2 clients. I’ll be reviewing applications as they come in, so if you want this, don’t wait.
If you want the kind of easy, fun partnership that really makes life sing, here’s how to claim one of these limited spots:
Send an application to cara [at] 17000 [dash] days [dot] com answering these questions:
- What do you want to change in your relationship?
- What’s going well in your relationship?
- What do you like about the other person?
- What have you tried in the past to improve this relationship?
- What do you want your relationship to look like?
- Why do you think this program would be a good fit for you?
My less struggle, more harmony relationship guarantee
Sound scary, or too good to be true? I can understand that, so how about if I take all the risk?
If it turns out you don’t like the program or think it will work for you, let me know at the end of the first session, and I’ll refund your money. In fact, if you do what we discuss and you’re still not seeing results at the end of the program, tell me and I’ll refund the whole thing. I don’t want your money if this doesn’t work for you.